Football
Hunter Baker, a political science professor at Union College, is a man with a sense of humor. For starters, he is quick to make fun of himself. Given that he has both a PhD and a law degree, he occasionally goes by Dr. Hunter Baker, Lawyer – which he jokes is both his name and a string of four quite different professions.
And now there is this clip from a journal he writes:
You’ve been missing something. You have lived your life wondering whether there might be anything greater than yourself, some cause, some great undertaking to which you might dedicate your life. You have experienced many of the world’s possibilities, eaten many meals, played with many toys, accumulated goods, but still found yourself dissatisfied. Perhaps now you have come to a time of decision. Maybe you are ready to move to a different level. You are ready to leave lesser things behind as you subordinate your life and goals to something big enough that you can place your hopes upon it.
What I am asking is this: “Are you ready to give your life to the Southeastern Conference of the NCAA?” Or maybe you already have? We have meetings every Saturday.
Hmm. I know many who attend worship services there.
Convictional Leadership
I recently listened to a lecture by a seminary president on leadership. There are lot of people writing, speaking and blogging on leadership today, but I found these comments particularly insightful.
According to this theory, leadership must begin and end with conviction – i.e. leadership is about “the transference of conviction that leads to communal right action.” So leaders must be people of conviction and must spread that conviction to those around them.
But what are convictions? Or, what are the right convictions? They are not mere beliefs. Rather, they are centering beliefs that are so fundamental that we can’t understand anything without them. We don’t know who we are or who God is without them. Convictions are not beliefs that we hold. They are beliefs that hold us.
Many people lack convictions. They are shallow and lack a clear sense of purpose. Christians are called to be people of deep conviction, and our convictions must be God’s convictions, which we find in his Word. Once the convictions of the Word of God become our convictions, then we are positioned to influence those around us in positive, meaningful, God-honoring ways.
How then do we go about conveying our convictions to others?
· It happens through communication. Presence, while necessary, is not sufficient to pass our convictions to those around us.
· A leader must be able to speak well – clearly articulating our convictions. We must repeat the same things over and over again – because people remember what we repeat. People should know what convictions walk in the room when you walk in the room because you have talked about them so frequently.
· A leader must be able to write well. Books extend further than you. They last longer than you will. They are important for maximizing your impact.
The way to tell if you are a convictional leader is to look at those around you. Do they now hold your same convictions? Convictional leaders don’t take their convictions to the grave with them. They live on as the convictions of others – expressed in their thoughts, words, and actions. This is the legacy of a convictional leader.
David Brooks on Sin and Augustine
I recently watched a video of a talk that David Brooks gave last month at the Aspen Ideas Festival.
Brooks is a columnist for The New York Times and, as best I can tell, a secular Jew. He’s also a very insightful guy. In this particular lecture he reflected on his recent experiences teaching a course at Yale. What he expected – and got – was a room full of this country’s best and brightest college seniors. What he didn’t expect – and was troubled by – was the realization that these students had no interior life. He reports that they were so focused on external success that they’d not only failed to cultivate their inner world, they didn’t even have a vocabulary to talk about it.
You can watch the lecture for yourself by clicking here. What I found interesting was not his observation about the students at Yale or his conviction that we need an inner world, rather it was his belief that we are broken.
As I noted above, I’m not sure exactly what Brooks believes about spiritual matters, but it’s not every day that New York Times reporters use the word “sin.”
In the lecture, Brooks describes his efforts to help students begin thinking about their inner world by assigning certain books. In particular, autobiographical works written by people who were not only very accomplished (in worldly terms) but who also had a rich inner life. His list included people like: Dorothy Day, Francis Perkins, Dwight Eisenhower, George Marshall and Samuel Johnson
It also included Augustine. In particular, it included Augustine’s Confessions.
Perhaps you’ve read it. If not, add it to the pile of must reads. Here’s what Brooks emphasized:
- Augustine, who was born in Algeria in 354, was exceptionally bright. Exceptionally, exceptionally bright.
- His mother, Monica, was a devout Christian. She was also ambitious for her son. Brooks called her a Tiger Mom. Perhaps she was.
- While he is still young, Augustine goes to Carthage, a university town, to try to impress the grad students. He is very vain. He leads a sort of wild life. (Not wild by today’s standards. But he is involved in the hook-up culture.) All of this throws him into turmoil. Augustine writes:
Poverty and Child Sponsorships
Everyone with a moral compass agrees that poverty is bad. Many additionally argue that we have a moral obligation to end it. Jesus certainly points us in that direction. The key question is: how? What is the best way to help the poor?
Over the last thirty years, international child sponsorship has become one of many people’s favorite strategy. Large organizations such as Compassion International, World Vision and Save the Children and smaller organizations such as Life Builders, New Hope Intl, I.N. Network and HBI, annually funnel $5B per year toward 9 million sponsored children. Does it work? Is this an effective way to fight poverty?
I have assumed it does. Indeed, Sheri and I have not only sponsored a dozen children over the years, I’ve been a spokesman for one of the main groups, challenging people to give up a cup of coffee every day in order to feed, clothe, educate and evangelize a child.
But does it really work? Until recently we did not know for sure. Now we do. University of San Francisco economist Bruce Wydick just published the result of his team’s investigation into Compassion International. They studied the effects of child sponsorship in Bolivia, Guatemala, India, the Philippines, Kenya, and Uganda. The results? Child sponsorship proved to have a statistically significant impact in several areas.
- Sponsored children are more educated than their unsponsored siblings, neighbors, and peers from the same communities. (They are 27-40 percent more likely to complete secondary school and 50-80 percent more likely to obtain a university degree.)
- In areas where the education levels are lowest (such as sub-Saharan Africa) the impact of child sponsorship is the greatest. Similarly, in areas where boys have higher levels of education than girls the impact was greater among girls, and vice versa.
- When sponsored children finish school, they are 14-18 percent more likely to be hired for a salaried job, and they are 35 percent more likely to get a white-collar job. Many sponsored children decide to become teachers, and others take on different leadership positions in the community or in the church.
- Additionally, sponsored children were measurably more hopeful than their unsponsored siblings and neighbors. This hope is seen in higher levels of self-worth, more ambitious goals and greater aspirations. In short, sponsored children believe that they can change their own future – and the evidence shows that they do.
Can a small investment each month really make a difference? Yes. It’s an effective way of breaking the cycle of generational poverty in the poorest countries around the world. It’s not the only way, but it’s an effective way. Sponsor a child.
Books, Books and More Books
Books are the tools of the trade. Consequently, I buy one or two a week. The problem is, they take up a lot of space. Lots of it. Eventually I run out. So, once every year or two I purge. It takes hours – and it’s very painful – but it has to be done. I force myself to go through every book, sorting them into two stacks: keep and give away. I didn’t purge last year. But I did this week. I’d guess 500 books found their way into new hands – many at the Hindustan Bible Institute.
The reason I’m writing about this is because I made a few observations during my last sorting session:
Reference books are dinosaurs. In previous purges commentaries, encyclopedias, atlases and the like were sacred. This time they were the first things to go. The Internet is quicker, easier and cheaper to use. If you’re still holding on to 32 volumes of the Encyclopedia Britannica, it’s time to ask yourself a simple question: why?
Topics are trendy. It’s not hard for me to know how much of this is me – and my interests during a given season of life – and how much of this is cultural. But, I can date a lot of the books I have by a five year period of time. Discipleship? 1980s. Church Growth? late 80s, early 90s. Spiritual Formation? 2000 – 2010. Environmental issues? 70s or 2005 and later, etc. etc.
The winner is theology, followed closely by leadership, apologetics, church history and Jesus. The non-trendy books likely say more about the pastor than anything else. I’ve walked into some pastor’s studies where he (or she) had forty five volumes on the Book of Revelation and virtually nothing else. If you count my books, more fall under the systematic theology banner than anything else. Leadership is next. Jesus is fifth. (I feel a bit sheepish about that, so I guess I need to buy more books on Jesus).
Eschatology books are especially trendy: Theology is a bit trendy, but the study of the end of the world is especially trendy. Do you want a book explaining why this decade is the last one? I have kept a few for show and tell. Some were written in the 70s and some in the 80s. My favorite was 88 Reasons Why the Rapture will Occur in 1988, which is not to be confused by its sequel, 89 Reasons Why The Rapture Will Occur in 1989. (You can’t make this stuff up!) Let me be clear, I do believe that Jesus will return. And I do believe that it could be today. One day one of the clowns who writes a book like this will be right. But it’s worth reminding ourselves that God’s prophets were expected to be right one hundred percent of the time. Those who were not were to be put to death. I’m not suggesting anything that harsh. But I do think that anyone who wants to publish a book giving a date for the end of the world should have to read at least a few hundred of those who have done so and were wrong. It might promote a bit of humility.
I have a lot of books on suffering. I have not suffered in any serious way. But the crisis of faith caused by suffering is a big topic. I have more volumes on this single topic than any other.
Grace
I’m not much of a fan of Paul Tillich’s theology. But his thoughts on grace – taken here from The Shaking of the Foundations – are powerful and worth pondering.
Do we know what it means to be struck by grace? It does not mean that we suddenly believe that God exists, or that Jesus is the Savior, or that the Bible contains the truth. To believe that something is, is almost contrary to the meaning of grace. Furthermore, grace does not mean simply that we are making progress in our moral self-control, in our fight against special faults, and in our relationships to men and to society. Moral progress may be a fruit of grace; but it is not grace itself, and it can even prevent us from receiving grace. For there is too often a graceless acceptance of Christian doctrines and a graceless battle against the structures of evil in our personalities. Such a graceless relation to God may lead us by necessity either to arrogance or to despair. It would be better to refuse God and the Christ and the Bible than to accept them without grace. For if we accept without grace, we do so in the state of separation, and can only succeed in deepening the separation. We cannot transform our lives, unless we allow them to be transformed by that stroke of grace. It happens; or it does not happen. And certainly it does not happen if we try to force it upon ourselves, just as it shall not happen so long as we think, in our self-complacency, that we have no need of it.
Grace strikes us when we are in great pain and restlessness. It strikes us when we walk through the dark valley of a meaningless and empty life. It strikes us when we feel that our separation is deeper than usual, because we have violated another life, a life which we loved, or from which we were estranged. It strikes us when our disgust for our own being, our indifference, our weakness, our hostility, and our lack of direction and composure have become intolerable to us. It strikes us when, year after year, the longed-for perfection of life does not appear, when the old compulsions reign within us as they have for decades, when despair destroys all joy and courage. Sometimes at that moment a wave of light breaks into our darkness, and it is as though a voice were saying: ‘You are accepted. You are accepted, accepted by that which is greater than you, and the name of which you do not know. Do not ask for the name now; perhaps you will find it later. Do not try to do anything now; perhaps later you will do much. Do not seek for anything; do not perform anything; do not intend anything. Simply accept the fact that you are accepted!’ If that happens to us, we experience grace. After such an experience we may not be better than before, and we may not believe more than before. But everything is transformed. In that moment, grace conquers sin, and reconciliation bridges the gulf of estrangement. And nothing is demanded of this experience, no religious or moral or intellectual presupposition, nothing but acceptance.
Reflections on a Church
M.J. Sewiert, whose been our Middle School pastor for the last eight years, is about to become the lead pastor of Zion Community Church in Wilmot, South Dakota. He leaves this week. It’s a bittersweet moment for all. Few churches enjoy such a long and successful run by the middle school guy. (I am on record and saying that I wouldn’t last more than ten minutes.)
Last weekend MJ preached, Sarah (his wife) sang and the whole family was celebrated at several different events. Yesterday MJ sent around the following note – it’s a post of the 25 things he appreciated about Christ Church. I pass it along with only minor edits.
- Christ Church has been the only church I’ve known since surrendering my life to Jesus over 13 years ago. I’ve grown tremendously here through all manner of events and programs – e.g. men’s softball and basketball leagues, retreats and rafting trips, Men’s Fraternity, serving as an usher, nursery volunteer, walker room coordinator, and Club 56 leader; Summer Nights events and all-church picnics, etc.
- The staff, elders, and deacons genuinely care for and respect each other and work to serve each other.
- The physical layout of the Lake Forest campus is so refreshing: little clutter and lots of natural light make it a pleasant place to worship, meet a friend or read a book.
- Christ Church took a chance on me nearly 8 years ago, an unproven leader with little experience and almost no seminary training. And yet the leadership was open to discerning and obeying God’s call…
- David Weil has been a fantastic boss who has mentored me, given me important advice at crucial times, and also allowed me to run with my God-given gifts without micro-managing me.
- I have a great office/work space that I enjoy coming to each day (I think I’m the only guy in the world whose office is bigger than his house! ).
- When I started here I inherited phenomenal teen and adult leaders who love the LORD, love the students, and work to encourage me—and this has continued through today.
- The staff is comprised of such incredibly competent and capable servant-leaders who not only know how to “get the job done” but whom I also simply enjoy to be around.
- Mike Woodruff has given me many opportunities to preach in the adult services—this is not common for Middle School pastors and I am so thankful for these opportunities that have been offered to me enthusiastically, not begrudgingly or reluctantly.
- Many individuals have been a blessing to me and my family over the last 12 years—praying for us, seeking us out to see how we are doing, babysitting our kids, dropping off anonymous Target gift cards, etc.
- I am given such freedom to do what I need to do to honor my family (e.g. leaving work early some days, teaching art at my daughters’ school), spend time with God uninterrupted (personal retreat to St. Mary’s once per month), and organize my weekly tasks according to my own unique personality.
- I am not pressured with an idolatrous focus on “numbers numbers numbers” (though of course we all want Christ Church to grow numerically!).
- I have a generous budget with which to help minister to the Middle School students, their leaders, and their families.
- My children have thrived here over the last 10+ years—they truly enjoy attending worship services and know that our family’s main community/network comes from this local church. Our participation in this local body is central, not periphery, to our family’s life.
- Christ Church has enthusiastically and generously supported the pursuit and completion of my Masters degree over the 7 years it took me to complete it.
- I am not constantly pressured to do more programs, and am even encouraged to keep my work pace at a sustainable long-term level.
- The teaching has been fantastic, Biblical, relevant, and humble, with a mix of topical series and serious expository studies in Hebrews, Acts, etc. Messages have been practical and intellectual without being stiffly academic.
- There are fantastic opportunities throughout the year to get to know the other staff on a personal level through retreats, lunches, Christmas gatherings, etc.
- Christ Church considers Middle School to be an equal and important ministry amongst many others. The 5th-8th graders have not once been treated like a second class ministry since I have been here.
- The administrative assistants have rightly been treated as equal members of this staff and ministry team.
- The leadership of Christ Church genuinely desires to honor the LORD in everything and to come alongside both the seeker and the saved in every Biblical way.
- The leadership have never been content with status quo – there has been a desire to follow the LORD wherever He leads, shining His love throughout the Ten Miles around Christ Church’s steeple.
- The staff has fantastic medical, vision, dental, vacation and other benefits.
Godspeed MJ. May you have a long and fruitful run in Wilmot, and leave behind as many fans there as you leave here.
Is Twenty the New Thirty?
Meg Jay, author of The Defining Decade, makes a number of fascinating points about the way today’s youth transition into adulthood. Jay reports that many twentysomethings now believe that there is no hurry – that “they’ve got extra time to grow up” – because everything now starts later: work, marriage, having children, even death. Consequently, 30 is the new 20.
Right? Wrong! Jay argues that the twenties are the defining decade and that a growing number of people are wasting them. To make her case she cites studies that show that:
- 80% of life’s most defining moments happen by the time you are 35.
- The first ten years of a career have an exponential impact on how much we will earn during the rest of our lives.
- Half of all people who marry will do so in their 20s.
- Our brain caps off its second and final growth spurt during this decade – which means we are in a lot better space if the habits and discipline we want to carry us through life are already in place.
- Female fertility peaks at 28 and gets tricky after 35.
In other words, those who waste their twenties place themselves in a deep hole. In fact, Jay – who is a clinical psychologist at the University of Berkeley – says that the twenties are as important to adulthood as the first five years of life are to childhood.
Why is this information important to hear? Because “this is not what twentysomethings are hearing. The media is full of reports about how it’s taking longer to reach adulthood. We’ve even made up new terms like twixters and kadults to describe those in their twenties. The result is, we have trivialized the defining decade of a person’s life. Leonard Bernstein says that, ‘In order to achieve great things you need a plan and not quite enough time.’ What happens when you pat a twentysomething on the head and say, ‘you have an ten extra years?’ Nothing happens. They kill time.”
Jay supplements her work with stories from her counseling practice. She tells of those in their early thirties who realize that they had a better resume when they graduated from college than they do now. Or of those in their thirties and forties who suddenly realize that they cannot have the career they want – or the children they want – because they wasted their twenties.
So, what does she recommend? Her advice to twentysomethings includes:
Forget about having an identity crisis and get some identity capital. Do something that adds value to who you are. Identity capital builds on itself. Now is the time to take some risks. This doesn’t mean that there is no time for self-exploration. What it does mean is that there is no time for exploration that doesn’t count.
The urban tribe is overrated. Don’t only huddle with likeminded twenty year olds, expand your network. Half of all new jobs are never posted. You need to network with your friends, their friends and your neighbor’s boss to get a job. This is not cheating, it’s the way information spreads.
The time to pick your family is now. The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one. Work as hard on your love as you do your work. Do not settle.
Is there any good news here? Yes. Jay loves what she does because twentysomethings are easy to help. “They are like planes just taking off from LAX and heading West. A small course correction at the beginning of the flight is the difference between Alaska and Japan.
Our God of Joy
Dallas Willard, an author, USC philosophy professor and thoughtful advocate for spiritual maturity, passed away last week. I’ve enjoyed several of his books and a few conversations with him. I recently ran across his argument that God is, “the most joyous being in the universe.”
While I was teaching in South Africa some time ago, a young man … took me out to see the beaches near his home in Port Elizabeth. I was totally unprepared for the experience. I had seen beaches, or so I thought. But when we came over the rise where the sea and land opened up to us, I stood in stunned silence and then slowly walked toward the waves. Words cannot capture the view that confronted me ….
[I realized] that God sees this all the time. He sees it, experiences it, knows it from every possible point of view, this and billions of other scenes like and unlike it, in this and billions of other worlds. Great tidal waves of joy must constantly wash through his being ….
We pay a lot of money to get a tank with a few tropical fish in it and never tire of looking at their [beauty] and marvelous forms and movements. But God has seas full of them, which he constantly enjoys …. We are enraptured by a well-done movie sequence or by a few bars from an opera or lines from a poem. We treasure our great experiences for a lifetime, and we may have very few of them. But he is simply one great inexhaustible and eternal experience of all that is good and true and beautiful and right ….
Willard concludes, “All of the good and beautiful things from which we occasionally drink tiny droplets of soul-exhilarating joy, God continuously experiences in all their breadth and depth and richness.”
Keeping Big Things Big
I’m just finishing up a few days of meetings for ScholarLeaders International, the global leadership initiative that I’ve been working with for over twenty years. ScholarLeaders (SL) identifies and invests in the best and brightest leaders from the Majority World church. We are particularly interested in those who will teach, lead and write at the national level. It’s been a very encouraging few days. We were able to attend to all of the requisite board matters – strategy, budgets, committee reports, etc. – and also spend time with the SL students who are studying at Fuller, which includes our first from Vietnam.
I often come away from these gatherings with a renewed energy for the Kingdom of God. This meeting was no exception. There were some sad moments – e.g., we said goodbye to Gwyn Hoyt, who is retiring after nearly ten years as our west coast development director and we desperately missed Brian Prinn, who chaired the board for four of the years I served as president. Brian died suddenly a few months ago. He was one of the most gifted leaders I have ever known. There will be no replacing his wisdom, energy or insight. But there were some “expanding, positively-disruptive” moments as well. One of them was a comment made by Mark Labberton at dinner last night. Mark – who co-founded ScholarLeaders twenty-nine years ago, who has been a friend and mentor to me for over twenty years, and who was just appointed the new President of Fuller – reminded me that one of the reasons he founded ScholarLeaders was to help “keep big things big.”
Mark grew up in an irreligious home because his father felt that religion made “big things small.” He came to faith in college after studying the Gospels and realizing that Jesus did the opposite – he kept big things big. He was drawn to the preaching and writing of John Stott because John was keeping big things big. Finally, Mark got involved with ScholarLeaders because being involved with talented leaders from the Majority World pulled him out of the smallness of the American church.
I completely get that. The local church – and those who lead it! – can be small-minded. That is not our calling. Religion makes big things little. It boxes in God. It tries to control things. Jesus keeps big things big, and those of us who follow him cannot afford to do otherwise.